<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Get Out Get Love]]></title><description><![CDATA[Get Out Get Love]]></description><link>https://craignewman.wixsite.com/getoutgetlove/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 05:23:20 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://craignewman.wixsite.com/getoutgetlove/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Recognising How Past Trauma Can Show Up at Work – and What to Do About It]]></title><description><![CDATA[Managing trauma responses in the workplace can be challenging. 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Explore whether therapy may be what you need, recovering from the trauma of a difficult past relationship]]></description><link>https://craignewman.wixsite.com/getoutgetlove/post/shouldibeintherapy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67d80c042486918e6e67ed6f</guid><category><![CDATA[rescuetoolkit]]></category><category><![CDATA[health]]></category><category><![CDATA[Relational Trauma]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2025 11:51:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_111eea225f414b3b9dd042c542e07989~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Craig Newman</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Understanding the Signs: How to Recognise Past Relationship Trauma]]></title><description><![CDATA[Discover how relationship trauma can shape your thoughts and emotions. ]]></description><link>https://craignewman.wixsite.com/getoutgetlove/post/relationaltrauma</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67becc8bae4be7e31560d580</guid><category><![CDATA[Relational Trauma]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2025 08:24:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_566d72386247555245786f~mv2_d_5472_3648_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Craig Newman</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Your Solicitor is Not Your Therapist: 9 Tips to get the most out of a legal session.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Maximise your legal sessions with these 9 tips to ensure efficient use of time and money with your solicitor. 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Perhaps ask a different question (domestic abuse assessment).]]></title><description><![CDATA[A free tool to assess how your past or current relationship makes you feel, to identify if your partner is abusive.]]></description><link>https://craignewman.wixsite.com/getoutgetlove/post/ispartnerabusive</link><guid isPermaLink="false">65c623ebb3f0ff09b2b4afa3</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2024 20:28:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/5e9ba3_e811d8d248664f8880259b58666a3f0f~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_870,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Craig Newman</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA["Every time they sigh, I ask, what's up?"... learning to leave abuse behind in new loving relationships.]]></title><description><![CDATA[How to STOP abuse-learned reactions, when they appear in a new healthy relationship.]]></description><link>https://craignewman.wixsite.com/getoutgetlove/post/stopmethod</link><guid isPermaLink="false">65c5dbfd6aea0d38df1ff69f</guid><category><![CDATA[Self-compassion learning]]></category><category><![CDATA[New Relationships]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 20 Feb 2024 12:12:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/5e9ba3_24f3693e0bb04a58a9c256bdc057a496~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Craig Newman</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>